Learn How to Deal With a Difficult Employee

Learn How to Deal With a Difficult EmployeeLearn How to Deal With a Difficult EmployeeIt is inevitable in your role as a manager that you will have to deal with employees who earn the label difficult. Instead of ignoring the situation as many managers do, it is essential for you to take action to remedy the problem. After all, you own forming and maintaining an effective working environment. Effective managers use a deliberate approach similar to planning and delivering a constructive feedback discussion, for dealing with difficult employees. Here are some tips onhow to best deal with a difficult employee. 146 Watch Now 9 Tips for handhabung a Problem Employee Evaluate While action is essential, it is important to momentarily hit the pause button and evaluate the situation so that you are armed with a current, clear perspective.Observe the employee in different settings. Look for behaviors that introduce stress or toxicity into situations. Observe how others respond to the empl oyee. Strive to isolate the one or two behaviors that others are complaining about to you. Observe Resist the temptation to respond to complaints or innuendo without checking out the situation yourself. Talk to the people involved. Collect all the facts you can before you act. And dont discount that occasionally, everyone has a bad day or week. If a normally easy-to-work-with employee is suddenly uncooperative and uncommunicative, consider that there may be extenuating circumstances. Develop a Plan Based on your observations, assess whether the situation merits coaching, counseling, training or discipline. Coaching emphasizes specific behavior modification.Counseling focuses on problem behaviors and comes with implications, including, You need to cease doing (behavior), or, you will be placed on a performance program and potentially fired. These situations often turn into coaching activities.Training supports skills development and helps fill knowledge gaps.Discipline reflec ts an immediate improvement program with implications. Make certain to involve your human resources kollektiv. Your time invested in thinking through where you want the situation to go will pay dividends during the actual discussion. Many managers script out the opening sentence of their discussions with the employees just to make certain to frame the situation properly for all parties. Confront the Problem Dont put it off. It may notlage be pleasant, but its an important part of your job. It will not fix itself. It can only get worse. You have planned this confrontation. Now you need to execute. And remember, everyone on your team is watching and waiting. Focus on the Behaviors, Not the Person Your goal is to develop a solution, not to win. Focus on the inappropriate behavior dont attack the person. Dont assume the inappropriate behavior is caused by negative intent. It may be from fear, confusion, lack of motivation, personal problems, etc. Try to Draw out the Reasons B ehind the Behavior As you talk with the difficult employee, actively listen to what they say. Stay calm and positive. Ask open-ended questions that cant be answered in one or two words. Dont interrupt. When you do respond to the difficult employee, remain calm. Summarize back to them what they just said, So what I understand you are saying is..., so they know you are listening to them. If you can find out from the difficult employee what the real source of the inappropriate behavior is, you have a much better chance of finding a solution. Develop the Solution Together The desired result of confrontinga difficult employees inappropriate behavioris an agreed upon solution. You know that this inappropriate behavior will continue unless you and the employee agree on a solution. The employee needs to know what is inappropriate about their behavior and they also need to know what the appropriate behavior is so that they can adjust their approach. Plan Follow-up and Repeat as Neces sary Minor problems, like being late for work, you may be able to resolve with a simple chat in your office with the employee. Others may require more than one confrontation before a solution can be reached. Be patient. Dont always expect instant results. Aim for continuous improvement rather than trying to achieve instant success. Know When You Are in Over Your Head Sometimes the underlying issue with a difficult employee will be beyond your capabilities. The employee may have psychological problems that require professional help, for example. Learn when to keep trying and when to refer the employee to others for more specialized help. Your company may have an EAP or you may need to use resources from the community. Know When You Are at the End While the goalisalways to reach a mutually acceptable solution that resolves the difficult employees inappropriate behavior and keeps your team at full strength, sometimes that is not possible. When you reach an impasse and the empl oyee is not willing to change his or her behavior then you need to begin terminations procedures in accordance with your companys policies. The Bottom Line Dealing with difficult employees is never fun. Nonetheless, it is part of your responsibility. A timely, deliberate approach to navigating these awkward situations will help you succeed. Updated by Art Petty